How to Text a Christian Guy? [SO HE NOTICES YOU]

He makes your heart race, and he appears to be on a similar faith path as you! That’s great. How do you let a Christian guy know you’re into him? Texting might get the ball rolling.

Sending text messages to a Christian guy you like doesn’t mean you can’t present yourself as the person God created. Knowing how to text a Christian guy can be a noble pursuit, and it might lead to a meaningful relationship. Just have a little courage and faith. After all, “there is no fear in love” (1 John 4:18).

How to Get a Christian Guy to Notice You

You might not know if a Christian guy notices you unless you make a move. Just remember not to use texting to play hard to get. Instead, do it in a way that gets him to see that you’re the kind of girl worth waiting for. These text ideas work best if you and the guy know each other or are already friends.

Follow up from an event. Texting an innocent question after an occasion can help you put yourself on the guy’s radar. Not only does this strategy highlight something you both have in common, but it also shows your interest in him indirectly.

Nice meeting you at the prayer group. How long have you been attending?

What did you think of Sunday’s sermon?

Hey, Tenor in the front row! Didn’t know until now we both joined the choir!

Text something special about you. A new makeover, haircut, or outfit might help him take notice. Show him an aspect that sets you apart from other girls. Just make sure you’re sincere about what you text. Embellishments on the truth take away from his true image of you (Proverbs 30:8).

Got my haircut today. I didn’t make a big mistake, did I? (attach headshot)

Woke up early. Instead of hitting the gym, I went to the lake to watch the sunrise.

I heard you last night talking about skydiving. Reminds me of my Colorado trip last summer.

Just finished cooking palak paneer. Do you like Indian cuisine too?

How to Let a Christian Guy Know That You’re Interested?

Suppose you’ve been texting for a while. What do you do next to show him your interest? Although you might feel shy, it’s okay to text some hints. If your heart is virtuous, it’s okay to be a little bold (Timothy 1:7).

Keep the communication open. An easy way to show interest is to communicate your desire to stay in contact. Doing so will show him you like talking to him.

Hope you have a good summer break. Let’s stay in touch!

I always look forward to your texts.

Thanks for your text. It’s always great hearing from you.

Use social media. Social platforms like Facebook and Instagram are excellent ways to keep up with what your guy’s doing. It can also be a smooth way for you to transition into texting if you’re too shy to do it at first. Just don’t engage with him so much that you look like you’re stalking his social accounts.

I couldn’t agree more. Beautifully said! (replying to his post)

That last meme you posted had me in stitches!

Aaawww. Cute baby picture! Hope you’re not mad at your mom for posting it.

I saw that you just came back from Madrid. I’m so jealous!

Ask for help. Most guys want to be needed, so he might appreciate your reaching out to him for advice or assistance. Just don’t infringe too much on his generous nature.

I’m leading next week’s Bible study, but I’m having trouble with the assigned reading. Can you help me wrap my head around it?

I’m flying out this weekend to see my parents. Could give me a ride to the airport?

My car just started making a thumping noise when it’s in motion. Could it be a bad tire?

Invite him to spend time with you. Few gifts are more valuable than a person’s time. Just don’t invite him out with you and then summon your hoard of friends to tag along. He might not get the message that the focus is supposed to be you.

My church is having a bonfire this Saturday. Wanna join me?

I’m going to Roasters for a coffee after Bible study. Want to meet me there and continue the discussion?

I’m shooting some pics this Saturday at the nature preserve. Since you’re into birds, want to come along?

How to Make a Christian Guy Like You?

We have to start with a caveat: Clearly, you can’t make a guy like you, but you can send some texts that make you more likable. Here are some texts that truly charm!

Exude positivity. God loves a joyful heart (1 Corinthians 16: 27), and so does a Christian guy. We’re not saying to always conceal your negative feelings. However, when you’re trying to get a guy to like you, it’s not wise to overwhelm him with venting right away.

Can you believe I ran out of gas today? Good thing I keep a gas can in my trunk!

I’m really enjoying the sunny weather today. Makes up for the cloudy week we just had.

Thanks for your sweet text this morning. It’s nice that you thought of me.

Compliment him. Text him some kudos if he’s done something positive or noteworthy. Does he have a characteristic or trait that you like? Let him know!

I’ve always had difficulty understanding [topic], but it became clear to me when you explained it in our group yesterday. Thanks!

Great shirt you had on today! Where did you get it?

You have a fantastic singing voice. It’s reason enough for me to stay in choir. 😉

I’m so glad I caught your speech. You were so eloquent and charismatic.

Be encouraging. No matter how strong your guy seems to be, there are times when he needs a boost (Romans 12:8)! Think of encouragement as Biblical flirting. It’s a way for you to express your feelings while showing him respect and modesty.

You have that exam on Thursday, right? I know you’ll ace it!

Isn’t your brother visiting you this weekend? I know you’ll have an amazing time!

Go, Mavericks!!! Your team’s looking stronger than ever!

I’m so sorry about your grandfather’s passing. Keeping you and your family in my prayers.

Show concern. Maybe your guy has had a job-related or personal disappointment. You might not know when he’s having a bad day, but occasional supportive texts can let him know you’re thinking of him.

Saw on Facebook that you’re under the weather. Need anything, like chicken soup? Let me know and I’m on it!

Hope this text brightens up your day, even if just a bit.

I know you’re having a tough time. Lean on your family, and seek out God. They both love you.

Be a little flirty. The focus here should be “a little”! Just don’t overthink it, get carried away, or let flirting be the focus of your feelings.

Thinking of you made me smile today.

When I woke up this morning, the first person I thought of was you.

Have I forgotten to tell you that you have a great smile? 🙂

When’s a good time to text you a reminder of how cute you are?

Show your sense of humor. A Godly guy appreciates humor in a girl (Job 8:21). Send him a witty text that leaves him with a smile and keeps him on his toes!

You’ve been bragging so much about your ping-pong prowess. When are you going to prove it? But I warn you—be prepared for a trouncing. 😉

Did you know that it’s physically impossible to keep your eyes open while sneezing? I’m a wellspring of knowledge, huh?

Ick. I need a bug squasher. The job is open. Are you up for it?

Final Thoughts

Texting has become a common part of romantic communication. Knowing how to text a Christian guy doesn’t have to be tricky. In fact, it can be a fun to know how to let a Christian guy know that you’re interested in him.

However, never make texting the foundation of building a meaningful, Godly connection with a Christian guy. Christ should be your ultimate pursuit. Also, while it’s easy to edit a text and present your best side, your guy needs to get to know the real you.

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