“It’s always words that undress you.” – Shahir Zag
Your guy is steamy and dreamy, and you want some creative ways to turn him on. Why not send a seductive text? You certainly can be playful, sexy, and sensual using today’s modern technology. Flirtation and seduction are essential parts of a romantic relationship, and conveying some of your feelings and desires through text is the new normal. If steamy texts aren’t typically your thing, that’s okay. Below are plenty of examples you can try. Consider stepping out of your comfort zone to heat things up. He’ll likely appreciate it!
Although this article is about the art of verbal seduction, you won’t read anything about sexting. Sexting itself isn’t bad, and we don’t necessarily discourage it. However, it’s beyond the scope of what we’re talking about in this article.
How to Seduce Your Guy with Words
You don’t have to be face-to-face with your guy to seduce him successfully. Words along that are playful and sensual can be quite the turn-on. Yes, men do tend to be more visual than women, and they do enjoy visual stimulation. However, a sexy text can go far to stoke his fire, even when you’re not right there. Because texting is such a normal part of communication, a hot message on his phone can be a fun and stimulating way to turn up the heat.
There is no one-size-fits-all formula or perfect text that will always work on your man. However, that doesn’t mean sexy texting has to be difficult or elusive. The key to seduction is to be playful, suggestive, confident, light-hearted, and, most importantly, yourself. Don’t take on a different persona or try to be someone you’re not. It’s YOU that he wants to feel close to. If you’re not used to sending seductive texts, just go easy at first. If you can get him to respond, then you’re doing it right!
Hot Things to Say to a Guy Over Text
Does your heart skip a beat when your guy sends you a hot text? Well, he’ll probably have the same reaction he gets a sexy text from you. Chances are he’s played all kinds of scenarios in his head about the next time you get together.
The beauty of a hot, flirty text message is that it has an element of surprise and has a modest amount of sexuality. Both features are compelling, and they make you appear more confident. Thinking of hot things to text a guy doesn’t have to be a mystery. Try some of these gems:
I’m so shy. I wish I could tell you what I’m thinking right now. Hint: It’s about you.
I challenge you to a contest. Which one of us can send the sexiest text? Ready? Here comes mine . . .
All I can think about is last night with you. It’s on replay in my head.
If I think about too much, I’m afraid I might lose control.
I just bought the sexiest pair of panties. You’d like them.
How can you be so funny, smart, AND hot? But you somehow pull it off.
With each day, I’m more and more hooked on the way you make me feel.
You’re an incredible kisser.
How is it that you know exactly what turns me on?
I just had the most delicious bath. What’s going on with you?
What’s your favorite color of lingerie on a woman?
The best feeling in the world is when you touch me.
I’m curious. What’s the most sensitive part of your body?
It should be a crime for you to be as sexy as you are.
How to Turn On a Guy through Text
In the modern age of quick-and-dirty digital communication, it’s never been easier to turn a guy on and make him want you. You can wield a bit of power with those characters you’re typing. For a turn-on text, using your imagination is key. If you wish to turn him on without driving him too crazy, don’t get too graphic. The key is to be subtle and vague enough so that your message leaves him alone with his imagination. When it comes to creating sexual energy, sometimes less is more.
I had a sexy dream last night. Want to guess who was in it?
I’m lying in bed feeling bored. Wish you were here to take that boring feeling away.
I wasted so much water in the shower this morning because you were on my mind.
This song I’m listening to is filling my head with lots of dirty thoughts. And they’re all about you!
My bed is queen-sized. So why should I be the only one in it?
We both know what we’re having for dinner tonight, but do you have an idea for dessert? I do!
I need to confess: I’ve been naughty today, and I think I deserve a spanking.
Just thinking about you has me all hot and tense? Think you could come over and relieve some of that tension?
I’m just now thinking of the last time we made love.
I love it when sometimes you treat me like your own plaything.
I can’t sleep. I can’t stop thinking about the last time I had you in my bed.
I’m having a hard time taking off my bra. Could you come over and help me?
I’m in dire need of pressing my body against yours. Now.
I’ve been thinking about you all day. What me to go into more detail?
I’m jumping in the shower because I’m dirty. But if you come over, you might get me dirty again.
It turns me on when you’re in charge.
How to Tease a Guy Over Text
Texts intended to tease a guy are downright naughty. With this type of message, you’re being less subtle and bolder when describing what’s on your mind. Suppose you’re ready to really turn up the heat. In that case, a teasing text will create enough sexual tension to make a future encounter so delicious.
There are a few things to keep in mind with teasing texts. For one thing, have an idea of where your guy is before you send a teasing text. Is he out with his friends where they might see your message if he sets his phone down? If he’s at work, then you might not want to send him something that would not be safe for work.
Also, with any highly sexual text, it’s better if you’re able and willing to follow through on anything you promise him in your text. Of course, it goes without saying that you always have the right to change your mind in any intimate situation.
Sucking on a lollipop right now and wishing it was you.
It’s getting really cold here, but maybe that’s because I don’t have any clothes on.
Hmm, is something missing in my life? Oh yeah, that would be you . . . between my legs.
It’s the middle of the night. Suppose you and I were in bed and we just woke up? What would you want to do to me?
It’s only 9:00 AM, and I already want your mouth all over me.
Right now, I’m naked. What do you want me to do next?
What’s one thing you’ve fantasized about doing to me in bed? Let’s do that tonight!
I think we should spend the evening in my kitchen, and I’m not talking about cooking dinner!
Last night with you wore me out. When’s the next session?
You wouldn’t believe how flexible I’ve become since I’ve started palates.
Where’s the very first place you would want me to touch you? Kiss you?
I want you naked right now.
I love it when you do [insert action] to me.
I can’t get enough of how good you taste.
The thought of your hands all over me makes me wet.
Hey, there’s a new position I want us to try.
I can’t wait to put my mouth on you. Guess which part of you.
Want to come over? I feel like screaming out your name.
Final Thoughts
Sending hot, sensual texts can help keep the relationship fires burning and help maintain a robust and intimate connection between you and your guy. Sending a seductive text doesn’t have to be scary or difficult. It’s your opportunity to get creative and have fun. Your man will appreciate the effort.
Now you’re ready to give it a try. Use these sample texts for inspiration, but don’t be afraid to put your own spin on them. After all, your steamy texts should reflect your personality. Be yourself, be confident, and do what’s comfortable for you.
